NON-MONOGAMY COUNSELLING

Polyamory, ENM, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy

and all relationship styles in between

WORK WITH ME

Are you considering a shift from monogamy to something else?

Or maybe you’re hoping to heal and strengthen your current relationship(s) and want a counsellor who understands relationships outside of monogomy?

Or you’re seeking mediation between metamours?

I'm here to support you on your relational journey.

Free 15 min consultation

A chance to chat, ask me questions and see if we are a good fit.

Counselling for you and your partners

If you find yourself feeling stuck, confused, frustrated, or hopeless in your relationship with a partner(s) or loved one(s), let’s explore new possibilities together.

Individual Counselling

Together we create a safe space for you to explore and heal, deepen your self-awareness, alleviate feelings of anxiety, shame and guilt, and develop the skills to no longer be limited by old stories or past hurts.


Together we can:

  • Navigate and resolve triggers, jealousy, insecure attachment styles, and reactive patterns.

  • Explore whether polyamory or opening up your relationship is the right path for you and your partner(s).

  • Design your relationships based on conscious choices rather than societal norms.

  • Establish clear relationship guidelines and agreements.

  • Heal from past pains and unhelpful monogamous patterns which may still affect you.

  • Explore and understand your sexuality, and intimacy.

  • Develop a plan for coming out to friends, children, family, colleagues, and various communities.

  • Learn and practice essential communication tools to improve all your relationships.


Relationships are not static but an ongoing flow of harmony to disharmony, rupture and repair, connection, disconnection and back into connection again.
— Jessica Fern